Advanced bottoms can get double penetrated or DP’d, and of course go on the rotisserie. Perhaps your favorite position is getting sandwiched, that is fucking while getting fucked but in all honesty, it’s almost too good, and it’s tough to last in that position. Assuming some versatility, stamina and staying power, there’s just more combinations possible than with a one-on-one encounter. The joys of gay threesomes are many, and the possibilities are seemingly limitless. Then you’re faced with a decision at a point when you’re not thinking with your primary brain, and we all know how those decisions turn out. Make sure you’ve seen pictures of both, so you know what you’re getting into it sucks when you think you’re heading into a great tryst only to discover that one is a troll. If you are the single guy hooking up with the couple, beware the bait boy with some couples, there’s one hot one and one very much less so. Sometimes if a couple consists of two primarily bottoms or tops, they’ll be looking for a guy that brings their missing position to the mix, two bottoms looking for a total top, or two tops looking to skewer a willing bottom. With no notion of the virtue of chastity in effect for men, the only guys who will say no are those who find you repulsive and those who have some notion that they are ONLY looking for a serious relationship and are unwilling to have some fun along the way. Given that the gay community is unencumbered by the sexual morays of the straight world, if you’re a member of a couple looking to play, picking up singles is almost too easy. Unlike in the straight world, there’s no particular uneasiness with the gender of one of the participants, and many couples find that the added attraction of getting double-teamed allows them to land men who wouldn’t likely be interested in them one-on-one.
Whether you’re hooking up with a couple, are a member of a couple, or are a part of an impromptu “ménage à trois” thrown together at a bar or club, it’s one of the easiest hookups to accomplish. Here are some of the best positions with multiple partners, to help you get started.All male three-ways are something of a tradition in the gay community.
Once you know you're ready - and you're sure you know how to be safe - sex with multiple people can be a lot of fun. Practice it with each other or with a friend before you try it." “I really recommend this format from Reid Milhalko. “You also need to be able to have a safe sex conversation without embarrassment,” Glickman says. If you're having sex with multiple partners, you need to know what that entails - and it may mean going through a lot of condoms. And, crucially, no matter what your relationship status, you need to talk about safe sex. So make sure that everyone is enthusiastic about it. If you go into a threesome because you want to go along with your partner's desires or if you feel pressured, it's not likely to be a success. “I know that sounds obvious, but a lot of couples get into situations where one person wants it a lot more than the other. So how do you do you know if, as a couple, you're ready for a threesome - or a foursome? “It needs to be something they both want,” Charlie Glickman, PhD, sex and relationship coach, and Polly Superstar, the founder of the sex-positive community Mission Control and author of the book Sex Culture Revolutionary, tells Bustle. But, if you're in a couple, you may need to make sure you're ready for sex with multiple partners. If it's a casual hookup where nobody is emotionally attached - or a poly relationship where this is an established activity - it'll probably be smooth sailing.
But there are also the emotional and practical considerations to deal with. Having group sex for the first time can be a lot to handle - in fact, the number of limbs alone can be really overwhelming.